I am a massive fan of pasties, and honestly, I don’t feel like they have gotten enough attention on here, so I wanted to take a moment to correct that. Pasties are basically the perfect rave accessory/ clothing item because they can be a piece of clothing by themselves or styled to accent one and take it to the next level. Now as someone with boobs (not that you need them to rock a pair of pasties at your next event), I am a huge fan of pasties because they make sheer tops a lot more viable. I used to stay away from mesh or sheet tops because I knew I would need to find a bralette or cami to go underneath it, which would inevitably ruin the whole aesthetic. Since I have discovered pasties, I am a hundred times more likely to reach for something sheer.

Now as I have mentioned in some of my other posts I used to be incredibly insecure about my body, and in all honesty, I still haven’t completely shaken all of the body hate thoughts, but raving has given me so much more confidence in my body. One of the first outfits that I remember putting on that showed how much confidence I had gained was a cut-out Club Exx top with a pair of neon green pasties. This is one of the reasons why I wanted to give them a little love here on the blog with a special little shopping guide.

Pasties are an interesting piece in my opinion because even though they definitely go along with an image of sexuality and are normally associated with adult entertainment, there is something incredibly liberating about wearing them and incorporating them into your outfits (at leas in my experience). As someone with larger boobs I always felt like I had to be careful of what I wore, not wanting to draw attention to myself, but wearing pasties on their own is so liberating. Wearing pasties has become more then just a cool way to highlight my outfit, but a way to express my own sexuality and feel free with my body. I can’t promise that they will make you feel the same, bu I wanted to point out that clothing is often more then just clothing. It has meaning for everyone and that meaning isn’t going to be the same from person to person. So if you aren’t comfortable wearing pasties, it is no big deal, but don’t judge others for doing so. They may have all sorts of reasons and motivations for doing so.

The brands featured in this post as Neva Nude, Pastease, and Sasswear. I will say that I have purchased and worn pasties from both Neva Nude and Pastease before and they are amazing quality and super comfortable. They go on easy and are incredibly long lasting which is pretty key if you are going to be sweating your but off with only these little babies keeping you from an unfortunate wardrobe malfunction. I have never purchased from Sasswear but I have heard good things, which is why I wanted to include them.

In case you haven’t noticed by now, in the lead up to CRUSH Southern California I have been focusing specifically on valentines themed topics and shopping guides, and this one isn’t really going to be an exception. I hope you like pink.

LOVE ME HEART PASTIES $10.00 (PASTEASE)

These are so cute. I love the candy heart vibes and the little ‘love me’ on them, which is so adorable. These would look amazing on their own or layered underneath a sheer pink bodysuit like the one sugar thrillz released for valentines day (you can check it out in my “what to wear to CRUSH” post.

https://www.dollskill.com/pastease-love-me-heart-pasties.html

REFLECTIVE HEART PASTIES $15.00 (SASSWEAR)

I am a big fan of anything glow in the dark, especially when it is pink like these babies. Since I wear most of my pasties to events where there is going to be black light and all sorts of other cool lighting it is always fun to have something in your outfit that is going to look twice as cool with these.

https://www.dollskill.com/sasswear-reflective-heart-pasties.html

GLITTER MOUTH PASTIES $10.00 $5.00 (NEVA NUDE)

These are some of the dopest pasties I have been able to find online and so perfect for valentines day. It would have been easy just to have a pair of red lips but adding the glitter is such a perfect touch to these already awesome accessories. These are also an excellent alternative for those of you who aren’t super into pink.

https://www.dollskill.com/neva-nude-glitter-mouth-pasties.html

SPANK ME CROSS PASTIES $10.00 (PASTEASE)

I am a big fan of being open and honest with your desires, and if that means putting them on a pair of pasties, then I am one hundred percent in favor. I have always loved the cross pastie shape because I think it looks fantastic on everyone (no matter how big their nipples are haha). The black and red is again another option for those of you who aren’t super into pink.

https://www.dollskill.com/pastease-spank-me-cross-pasties.html

PINK DIAMOND SPARKLING VELVET PASTIES $10.00 $5.00 (PASTEASE)

They say diamonds are a girl's best friend and I agree, especially if this means these babies. I love the attention to detail, and the velvet texture means they are going to feel super awesome to touch…if that’s your thing. I am a big fan of the jewel shape as well because it is such a cool and different look from the standard cross or even heart.

https://www.dollskill.com/pastease-pink-diamond-sparkling-velvet-pasties-festival.html

SWEET REFLECTIVE X PASTIES $15.00 (SASSWEAR)

Who doesn’t love something reflective? These hot pink pasties are going to be the perfect addition to your CRUSH ensemble. The reflective sheen means they are going to shine in the lights and the simple, solid color means they will go with pretty much anything you are planning on wearing.

https://www.dollskill.com/sasswear-sweet-reflective-x-pasties.html

NEON PINK DAY-GLOW STAR PASTIES $10.00 (PASTEASE)

I will never not be a fan of stars, especially when they are in pink pastie form. These are super cute and another fun way to add a little touch of pink to an outfit. That price point is pretty excellent too.

https://www.dollskill.com/pastease-neon-pink-day-glow-star-pasties-festival.html

LET'S FUCK BLACK HEART PASTIES $10.00 (PASTEASE)

These babies speak for themselves. I love the hearts, and the black and pink is a perfect mix of badass and sweet.

https://www.dollskill.com/pastease-lets-fuck-black-heart-pasties-festival.html